Asian parents no dating
As someone who has worked with JT Tran of “ABCs of Attraction” for years, I speak from experience when I say I’ve come to know what it’s like for men in the dating scene.
I’ll be the first to admit that, if dating happened in a textbook scenario, it’s actually fairly straightforward for women.
That’s like choosing a new boyfriend based off your ex.
“I like Mark because he’s not like Dan, he doesn’t leave the toilet seat up like Dan does, he opens my car door but Dan wouldn’t…” All it really sounds like is that this hypothetical Asian woman is REALLY obsessed with DAN (Asian men) but doesn’t actually like Mark (White men) for who he is.
The darker their skin becomes, the less attractive they will appear to White males and the less chance they will mistaken for a half-Asian, which is the highest compliment an Asian girl can receive.
Now imagine being expected to do this in order to find a romantic partner, then try walking up to that really, really cute guy.White girls especially love getting tan because browning their pale skin makes them look healthier, more relaxed, and vibrant.Asians, however, truly abhor getting tan and sporting darker skin, and will go to great lengths to hide their skin from the sun by staying indoors, using sun umbrellas, and exclusively applying SPF 45 sun block.There’s an entire world full of non-Asian men, but more often than not, that’s not what they really mean when they say that — it’s White or bust.Another thing is that there’s a toxic trend with this type of Asian woman where she’ll try to validate her attraction for White men by putting down Asian men or Asian culture at large, as if it justifies her desire to glomp onto a White man.