Dating a divorced man with children blog
For example, tetherball, a game you never thought you would play, you might be playing it every night.
Fun and excitement will change from grown up fun to kid fun.
Yet, we are developing a very open minded friendship. I know patience would be worthwhile as she is the most amazing woman I have ever met. Reply You would be VERY wise to heed the comment about "her" priorities.
Women who make their kids their top priority are not good dating material. The children learn that the world revolves around them...seeing a healthy, positive relationship where a man and woman are the center and the children are to be loved but not the "center" of the world.
The reason is because being in public is a less frequent occurrence when compared to being at home in private.
Think about it: Those same kids are going to grow up and want to be #1 with their new love interest.
Imagine if they get married and have children and either spouse is # 2, 3, or worse? Keep the nucleus of the family between the parents and the children learn what a health relationship is....balanced with respect and love for the children at all times.
It's hard enough bringing up children when two parents are on the same team.
Now you have 2 parents who don't live together and 2 Step-Parents/BF/GF all putting their input in to "what's right".