Dating a guy who lives with his ex
We see each other when we can as we are both busy with 2 jobs. I get along with all of his friends…they actually make me feel special.I have met his brother and his family and love them.Little encounters here and there but nothing to get excited about.I invite him to spend time with us every other weekend…never pushing as I’d like him to want to spend time with my children!He’s talking about his ex because he’s still thinking about his ex — could he be any more obvious?It’s been a few months and you still haven’t met his family. You can tell that you’re a rebound just by paying attention to your sex life.I’m a 38-year old single mom with an 11yr old daughter and 5yr old son.I’ve been dating a 47-year old bachelor (has no children) for a year.
It’s too early in the relationship for him to be in love with you when he doesn’t even know you yet.
Just as there are great guys who make shitty boyfriends…and great boyfriends who turn into shitty husbands, there are also great boyfriends who DON’T WANT TO BE great husbands.
Point is: you have to figure out what your endgame is. Do you want the man you’re with to take on some stepfather duties, or at least integrate himself into your family more readily? If you can keep doing this, I’d love to, but if you can’t, I completely understand.”And you have to have the strength to walk away from a fun and wonderful short-term relationship because it has no potential to be the long-term relationship of your dreams.
Here are 11 signs he’s using you to get over his ex: He’s still bitter about his ex.
Not only does he still talk about his ex, but everything he says about her sounds resentful — a huge sign that he’s not over the relationship!