Dating are they into you
Here's the problem: Frances' first-date trick works perfectly, but most of us don't to the answer we get.
Raise your hand if you ever fudged the facts in your mind because you really wanted to see things through rose-colored glasses with a promising guy [raises hand! Well, the fudging-of-facts bit carries on throughout a relationship, sometimes keeping us committed to the wrong guy for months (or years).
If it ends up turning out that the guy you're hooking up with or dating isn't that into you, it doesn't reflect on you, so don't take it personally.
You are amazing and you deserve someone who gives you all the world.
So let's make 2019 the year you stop settling for guys that are not worth your time.
In order to do that, she devised a way to tell whether a guy wants the same things as you, which should be the foundation of any long-term relationship (we discussed it here on Smitten a few years ago).
Maybe they think the relationship is good for now, but they don't see it as a long-term thing.
That's fine if you also feel the same way, but if you want something more concrete, speak up.
Take a note from the iconic rom-com and let go of the boys in your life that aren't worth it.
You don't deserve someone who half-heartedly works their way through your relationship, or only keeps you around when its convenient for them.