Questions seldom asked when dating
What do you offer to your partner – emotionally, intellectually, sexually, and even financially – that benefits them? And – just like in the cover letter activity – those lists should be pretty evenly spread.
When you think of the word “sacrifice,” what comes to mind for you? But it also comes with a general feeling of sadness and defeated resolve.
Instead, it’s a relationship where one person gains and the other person loses.He loved the idea of me much more than he loved my actual self, and he implicitly held me to a standard that I could never attain because it wasn’t reality.He wanted the Melissa that he had painted in his head, not the one standing in front of him.We – especially women – are often taught that being a good person (and, by proxy, a good partner) means making someone else happy. You should experience growth, benefits, and joy in your relationship.But rarely are we taught to remember that we, too, should experience happiness in our relationships. So, like in the cover letter activity, ask yourself: In this relationship, what do you bring to the table?